Yeah! According to me a boy and a girl can be best friends in the term as they want. Until and unless they share a perfect bond having true friendship, no other person has the authority to judge them in terms of their relation.
It’s high time that the gossip men’s and agony aunties stop judging every boy and girl they find as a couple. It is not necessary that every boy and girl are boyfriend and girlfriend of each other. I think not only relationship, nobody should be judged by its first appearance. Before judging, defining, commenting someone on basis of their personality, ethics, attiques etc try to give urself some time and patience to know that person in better manner rather than directly judging them in bad terms and making them feel embarrassed. That is the saying goes perfect that
“Never judge a book by it’s cover”
It is a fact that most of us lack the courage to face the facts of life. Example:- I think my friend is drifting away from me. Only if u face this fact something or the other can be done about it. Most of the people try to avoid things happening in their life. Why is that we don’t know what we must know about our life? Problems should not be delayed. Showing courage for the right thing is your right decision. Save your courage to face problems of your life and not for irrelevant things.
“The forest fire you will face tomorrow is the little spark you tired to escape yesterday”. If you choose to face challenges in life, something can be done to win over it, but if you avoid it something gets nastier and at the end it revisits you. Escaping from challenges haunts you in your future. Escaping challenges and taking wrong decisions leaves you with regrets, and you end up saying”I should have done that”, but then it becomes too late to do it.
Life is like a game of chess
Your opponent player is your life with challenges.
If u understand the moves played by your life no one can stop you from winning over your challenges.
Facing challenges start with having courage to face facts in life. Escapism is not for people like you and me. What must be faced, must be faced sooner rather than later.
Often success driven people are driven by goals but I have personally learnt that much of life’s happiness, much of our feelings of fulfilment comes from the realisation that we are ‘walking than reaching our destination.
Success is the only thing that a person wishes to have in his/her life. As the sayings go “Empty vessels make much sound”, same goes with success, if a person doesn’t have a desired goal for his life his success has no value. To achieve success in life one must have desired path and direction that helps you reach till your success. Success doesn’t reach you just by dreaming about it you need to put in your hard work, dedication and efforts.
It’s who we become on the way to getting what we want. Let me put it another way, no matter the prize and no matter how big the goal, reaching our goals only accounts for a small percentage of our total happiness. The path till reaching our goals and aims is not all easy, but fighting towards the difficulties and obstacles and winning over it makes a person successful. Constantly improving and growing and setting new benchmarks can somehow help you achieve your success.
Becoming successful is not a matter of blind luck or occasional chance. Success is a skill, and its a skill anyone can learn. If you desire to be successful you have no choice but to learn the skills of positive habits and internal motivation, you must develop the skill of productive actions and you must develop the skill of creating powerful habits. All of which should and must be learnt if you want to find true success.
Finally I end my blog here, hope the readers reading my blogs achieve success in their life’s…