Hey guys, I am back with a new blog post. So let’s begin.
If you are happy in life right now, it’s not because everything about your life is necessarily going right, but because a relationship that really matters you the most is going great. On the other hand if you are unhappy in life right now, it’s not because everything about your life is going wrong, but because a relationship that really matters you the most is not going great. Blessed are those who have understood that they should be loving people and using things and not loving things and using people.
People keep faith and say relationships have to be nurtured and developed. They grow on their own accord. But when a relationship is left neglected, the expectations shakes the roots of relationships.
In a relationship, where there is substantial emotional reserve, mistakes will be tolerated and forgiven wherein the meaning will be understood even when communication is inadequate, your intentions will be appreciated even if you fall short in your actions. In all, the relationship will be good because you are considered good. And you are considered good because of the deposits you made to build emotional reserves in that relationship.
But on the other hand, there are relationships which are taken for granted where nothing works to nurture the relationship. Expectations continue to rise, but relationship still does not builds up on same continuity. The emotional reserves are overdrawn again and again.
In such a scenario, you will be held an offender for every work you speak; every move of yours will be judged; verbal battles and slammed doors will become regular occurrences; neither of your actions and intentions will be appreciated or respected. Such a relationship is like walking on a minefield- it blows up any time and many times.
Hence, I would end here by saying that always choose a relationship that helps you earn happiness in life and always matters you the most..